Energetic Bodywork

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Learn how to cultivate Chi, Prana, and life force energy

How many sessions do I need? +

Everyone is different. Most people can benefit from one session, experience some kind of transformation and learn techniques that can help them for the rest of their lives.

Many clients come three or four times over several months, some like to come for longer. If you have a lot of body armour, and trauma, then it’s best that you come more frequently at the start and over a longer period. This will allow your bodily pain to change to pleasure in the least amount of sessions. People with a lot of armour and/or trauma can still benefit from one or two sessions and apply the techniques into their daily lives.

My aim is help clients to the point where they don’t need to work with me anymore because they have developed the self-knowledge and self-love needed to change their own vibration.

But of course if you want to keep working with me to go deeper into your body or have a maintenance and refresher session every six months or year, then this can be really helpful.

Some clients like to see me on an ongoing basis because:

- they like to have sessions focused on putting new vibrations into their body which supports manifestation. This is best when most of the trauma has been released from the body.

- they enjoy the process and like going deep into the work. Developing their own energetic body, learning to run energy and learning more about themselves.

- they like to be coached. They enjoy a mixture of bodywork and psychological work. Some of these clients also request email mentoring to help keep them motivated on the path of self-love and self-acceptance in the way that I teach it.

I work in a variety of ways to best meet the needs of my clients. This can be for as long or as short as you wish.

If you would like to book a session or have any questions please do get in touch.

https://elliottsaxby.com/book-your-session

Can I benefit from your work without using 'sexual' energy? +

Yes you can 🙂

Sexual shame, and any other kind of shame, is a trauma and it's good to get this out of the body. It's possible to work with sexual shame indirectly so you don't need go there if it's uncomfortable.

My work is about using and transforming sexual energy for healing and developing conciseness, it's not about feeling aroused. I understand for some people this part of the work can feel too much.

Body de-armouring is a very healing and rewarding experience and sexual energy does not need and and often is not used in the first few sessions as there is too much pain in the body.

Body de-armouring does not need the client to directly tap into their sexual energy, although it is helpful and speeds up the process. Body de-armouring will help us take away shame connected to our sexuality weather we are consciously using and transforming our sexual energy or not.

Talking about boundaries and intention is a central focus to my work. You and your wishes will always be respected.

To have a multiple-orgasmic energetic body we need to be okay with feeling our sexual energy rising through our charkas and transforming. De-armouring the body always comes before creating an energetic one. Weather sexual energy is used and transformed in the de-armouring process is entirely your choice.

 

I really want to have an energetic orgasm. Is it possible? +

Everybody is different, and the process is holistic. It’s important not to judge your self and to have desire, but not attachment. Some clients achieve pleasurable cathartic releases in one or two sessions. For others it can take longer.

In one of the ways that I run energy it means that the more evolved the Kundalini is the less we shake, as one type of shaking comes from our energy hitting blocks in the spine. Similar types of energy can be stimulated in other ways too, so the types of shaking from energy moving really varies. But the many energetic orgasm videos you can watch on Youtube (including my own) are very real and possible for most people.

If you have the desire to allow energy to run through your body in this way, and you have several sessions and follow some lifestyle advice then your chances are high. But it’s much better to come and see me as you want to release fear and trauma, heal, and be more aware of your authentic self.

My work is about healing and awakening. Having a multi-orgasmic body helps this.

 

Do you work with men? +

I don’t advertise for men but if a man really wants to work with me and I think that I can help then I’m happy to.

Some men work with me because:

- They have sexual traumas and need a man to help them heal through presence and trust

- Their girlfriend or wife is working with me and they want to incorporate what I teach into their lives

In the sessions we are learning to allow emotions and sensations to flow through the body. This is related to being in a state of surrender and in the feminine. Most men find this easier to accomplish with a woman.

As the masculine and feminine polarity work is central to what I do it’s good to have a gender polarity between the client and the therapist. It's not essential as it is the inner masculine and inner feminine principle that we work with, but normally this is the best way.

After Dentistry and working with the jaw? +

Dentistry especially after local anaesthetic, and general day-to-day life can cause a lot of trauma and holding in the jaw. It’s really good to let this go as it can effect the whole posture of the body as well as the smile on the face. I do this work in my normal sessions when there is a need. But if you would like a shorter session only focus on your jaw just email me and ask. 

Do you offer internal Yoni de-armouring and Yoni massage, and what's the difference? +

When a client asks me I am happy to do this work and help transform pain, trauma and numbness from the Yoni and anus.

As a first session I don’t offer Yoni de-armouring or Yoni-massage. It’s better to take major trauma out of the body first, and to open energetic pathways.

Many things can cause trauma in the Yoni including: shame, not being touched in a loving or consensual way, hard sex, large sex toys and vibrators, child birth, gynaecology examinations, contraception devices and a host of emotional issues, as well as the more obvious sexual traumas stemming from abuse. 

During a Yoni de-armouring the whole body is included with full or partial nudity. I remain clothed the whole time.

These sessions generally feel more intimate. They are designed to replace pain, trauma and numbness with pleasure and sensitivity.

I work in different ways, depending on my clients needs. Some sessions include more gentle and sensual massage, others deep pain release and energy work. Clients who work with me regularly normally experience these sessions in several different ways, meeting where they are at at the time. We will always talk first and tailor the session to how your body is feeling on the day.

Female ejaculation and release of Amrita, or Kalas (clear liquid released from the Skene’s gland) is a very healing experience. It can be experienced both with or without orgasm.

When experienced with orgasm it takes you to a heightened pleasurable state. Giving all of the cells in your body a new vibration and helping you to open your energetic pathways.

Occasionally it is also experienced without orgasm as a way of releasing trauma. Often when this happens the client does not know she has ejaculated until the end of the session and she feels how wet the towels are. The amount of female ejaculate varies on each release depending how the woman is feeling. It can range from several drops to almost a litre.

De-armouring the cervix inside the Yoni is also a very beneficial process. Your cervix is linked to your emotional wellbeing and has an energetic connection to your heart.

When you have sex with a man and his Lingham (penis) touches your cervix this is when you deeply connect on an energetic level. A numb cervix can stop you connecting emotionally in this way and it reduces the amount of pleasure during sex and can stop orgasm. A cervix can become bent and damaged through emotional trauma, physical trauma and hard sex and the use of toys when the Yoni is not fully relaxed. A bent cervix will reduce the amount of sperm that can get through and this reduces the chance of pregnancy.

During Yoni de-armouring and massage sessions I’m happy to work with you on any issues that you may have. Both sexual and non-sexual. Some clients prefer to work on all of their issues with more freedom around their sexuality, be it just being naked during the session or allowing them selves to transmute and sublimate more of their sexual energy in the session with some genital touch when needed. I can teach techniques for the transmutation and sublimation of sexual energy when asked.

During a Yoni de-armouring I work more intuitively and include a range of techniques, often first sessions these can be more painful than pleasurable, especially if you have a lot trauma. If this makes you nervous or you know that you would like a softer and more gentle experience, then please book a Yoni massage. In a Yoni massage I follow a more traditional method, and include a full body oil massage. These sessions might still have moments of pain, if this is where your body is at, but for the most part they focus on healing by brining more pleasure into the body.

We can also look at the relationship you have with your body, how to move energy, how to develop a deeper connection with your self through touch, and techniques that you can use to create a deeper connection with sexual partners.

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